Dirty Secrets:
My Fabric Care Guide

Laundry isn’t just a chore - it’s fabric care, home maintenance, and wardrobe longevity all in one.

Between client chats and friends’ laundry confessions, I’m convinced it should be part of the school curriculum. So here it is - my go-to laundry setup, stain-busting tricks, and the know-how to keep your clothes looking good for longer.

Part of my degree was in textile science, so yes, I’m that person who actually loves a stain challenge. Got something stubborn that won’t budge? Send it my way - or book me now and I’ll happily nerd out with you.

Here’s to clean, fresh, well-looked-after clothes — the Not Perfect way.

  • Before we even press Start, let’s make sure your laundry setup is working for you. A good setup gives you the right tools, prevents damage, and helps you avoid common pitfalls like using the wrong detergent or overloading your machine.

    Recommended equipment*

    *Spoiler: this is one big shout-out to The Dirt Company.Some of the reasons I love it: it’s effective, smells great, lasts for ages, is locally made, refillable, and looks good sitting in your laundry. 

    • Two soaking buckets - about 10 L each, one for whites and one for colours

    • Old toothbrush - for gently agitating stubborn stains after you spray

    • Regular detergent - my all-time fave is Dirt Advanced Wash

    • Wool or silk wash - regular detergents contain enzymes that “eat” protein fibres (like silk and wool). Use a delicate-specific one such as Dirt Wool & Delicate Wash

    • Stain-removing spray - use generously on fresh marks, again, Dirt is my fave, the Oil, Body and Grease is a fail safe (lots more info on stains below), an ‘oxy action’ spray also necessary to have on-hand for dye-based stains.

    • Drum cleaner - I use Dirt Machine Drum Wash at the change of every season. The same time I reset my moth traps! Keep reading for more info on that.

    • Front-loader washing machine - uses less water, gentler agitation, and the hand-wash cycle is a solid stand-in for real hand washing

    • No fabric softener - it can build up inside the machine, make towels less absorbent, reduce stretch in activewear, and leave a film that traps odours

  • Here’s how to run your typical loads with confidence - sorting, cycles, temps, and machine care.

    Check care labels (before buying and before washing)

    • Check labels when shopping. If it’s “hand wash” or “dry clean only,” ask: does that fit my lifestyle and level of laundry fucks?

    • Labels are conservative. Many items can be safely machine-washed on gentle, cool cycles. Proceed carefully with silk, viscose, and tailored suiting (especially structured shoulders - they’ll collapse).

    • Learn your symbols - or just Google them when in doubt.


    Loading and Sorting

    • How full - ⅔ to ¾ full when wet is ideal. Too empty = too many suds, not enough friction. Too full = no agitation, dirty clothes, stressed machine.

    • Sort smart

      • Whites and colours separate, always.

      • Towels on their own (they share lint).

      • Dark prints on light bases go with lights or coloureds, not darks, to avoid over-dyeing.

    • Colour care – wash brights and darks cool. Avoid throwing dark denim (or dark anything) in with white tees unless you enjoy DIY tie dye.

    Cycles and Temperatures 

    1. Hygiene & heavily soiled loads - Kids’ clothes, sheets, towels, tea towels: run on a cottons cycle (about 2.5 h).

      • If there’s gastro or other nasties in the house: pre-rinse solids off, run a 30 min pre-wash, then a full long hot wash.

      • Sanitation cycle at 90 °C is fine for cottons but check fibre labels - synthetics, colourfastness and elastic will suffer at high heat.

      2.Everyday clothes - For adult daily wear, a 1–1.5 h “mixed” or “daily” cycle on 30–40 °C is perfect.

    2. Quick washes - Only use for lightly worn, unsoiled clothes. They’re shorter because they skip rinse/agitation stages.

    3. Temperature – 30–40 °C covers most laundry. Hotter fades colours and uses far more energy.

    4. Detergent dosing - Measure it. More isn’t better; it builds residue that can actually trap grime and smells.

    D) Fabrics and Special Care

    • Wool & silk - Use a gentle, enzyme-free detergent. Avoid stain sprays or soakers that contain enzymes - they’ll literally munch the fibres.

    • Delicates & intimates - Hand wash if possible, or on a handwash cycle if you have a super gentle front loader. Wash white underwear separately; white/nude elastic loves to absorb colour.

    • Denim - Wash cold, inside-out, and remove immediately when the cycle ends. If you don’t, you can get ‘crease’ marks through the dye.

      • Rigid, raw, or premium denim (especially pure cotton with deep indigo dye) is the worst for crease-fade.

      • Cheap denim tends to have unstable dye and will bleed.

      • A salt soak before first wear can help set colour.

      • Jeans with stretch (elastane) are generally lower maintenance and less likely to form “whisker” fade lines.

    • Fabric softener – Use rarely (if ever). It coats fibres, blocks absorbency, and contributes to machine sludge.

    • Dry-clean only – Stick to the label for suiting, some silk blends, and viscose tailoring. Otherwise, spot clean or use a fabric-refresh spray (Dirt’s is great) and a handheld steamer to freshen.

    • Machine care – Leave the washing machine door open ALWAYS to dry out and stop mould from growing in the seals. Wipe seals and the detergent drawer regularly. Do a drum cleaning cycle or treatment and Check the bottom filter every 3 months. The filter is the one at the bottom where you have to unscrew the pipe, I’ve found coins, Lego, and all kinds of kid ‘treasures’.

    General Maintenance & Machine Health

    • If laundry isn’t coming clean: clean seals, filters, and run a drum wash.

    • Don’t overfill - you should be able to fit your hand vertically on top of the load.

    • Air-dry where possible. High heat shortens fabric life, causes pilling and shrinkage.

    • Store clean, dry clothes in a ventilated space. Musty wardrobes are often just too packed.

  • A) Soaking

    For stubborn stains or oil and grease stains: spray stains first, leave 1–2 h, then soak.

    Keep whites and colours separate when soaking.

    Wool & silk need enzyme-free products - try a mild detergent soak or Sard Wonder Soap. Go gently; no scrubbing or rough agitation. A patch test might be necessary first to check for colour fastness.

    • Oxygen bleach powders (like Napisan or Dirt Powder Booster) are brilliant for brightening. Always dissolve first before clothes go in - direct powder can leave pale patches.

    • Chlorine bleach - use only for whites, diluted at about 1 Tbsp per litre of cold water. Never use hot water (heat releases chlorine gas that’s baaaaaad to inhale) and don’t mix with ammonia or vinegar. Limit exposure to 5–10 minutes and rinse thoroughly.

    • Strip washing - soak heavily soiled or smelly items (like bedding, towels, sportswear) in hot water, washing soda, borax, and detergent - you can find a ‘recipe’ for this by Googling. Do it in the laundry tub or bath for big items but be careful lifting - wet textiles are heavy!

    • Keep items submerged for an even soak (a plate or bowl on top of your soaking bucket helps).

    B) Stain Playbook

    Treat stains ASAP — the fresher they are, the better your chances.

    I usually spray and leave 15 min – 1h before washing, and/or soak for 4–24h depending on fabric and soaker strength.

    These guidelines work well for cottons. Delicate fabrics need gentler care - see tips above.

    Oil, butter, grease, makeup

    Spray with an enzymne-based stain spray, agitate with a soft toothbrush, wash. On some fabrics (generally lighter colours) dishwash detergent is my go-to before a laundry spray. Sun-dry if possible as the sun has wonderful bleaching properties.

    Tomato / pasta sauces

    Spray with an enzyme-based product (or use dishwash), gently rub, rinse, wash. If still stained, repeat with soaker.

    Chocolate

    Spray with enzyme spray, rub in a dab of detergent, wash.

    Coffee / tea

    Spray with oxy-action product and wash; for set stains, make a paste from your soaker product first. Sun helps lift remaining marks.

    Berries / fruit

    Pre-spray with an oxy-action product, then soak with soaker before washing. Sun-dry.

    Grass / mud

    Gently scrub with toothbrush, then wash with detergent. If grass stains are very green, an enzyme-based spray could also be a good idea.

    Blood

    Always cold water first — heat sets it. Spray with an enzyme based product, agitate lightly, wash.

    White deodorant marks

    Spray with enzyme spray and rinse, or soak for big patches.

    Sunscreen

    Tough on whites! Ingredients like oxybenzone, octocrylene, and avobenzone can yellow fabric permanently. Pre-treat immediately, blot off excess oils, spray, let sit, then wash. Avoid these ingredients where possible. Mineral sunscreens are kinder on clothes.

    Wine

    Spray with an oxy-action spray, agitate lightly, wash. Finish in the sun.

    Paint / ink

    Throw your whole arsenal at them! Try two different sprays in sequence if needed. Some permanent inks won’t budge.

    Baby / formula stains

    Spray with an enzyme based stain treatment, agitate gently, wash, and sun-bleach naturally.

    Mould / mildew

    Use chlorine bleach (cold, diluted, patch-tested). Rinse well and rewash.

    Extra tips

    • Manufacturer recommendations are not to leave oxygen-bleach soakers on fabric longer than ~2 hours. I break this rule often!

    • If you’re unsure how a fabric will behave, patch-test first, especially on synthetics or delicate fibres.

    • Never mix different chemical soakers.

    As I mentioned before, sunlight is the most amazing free bleach for whites - hang garments on hangers and rotate for even exposure.

  • If you don’t have m/any ‘rejuvenation’ tools in your laundry, The Fabric Care Companyare a great place to buy from. Their products are WAY more robust than cheaper suppliers and definitely worth the investment.

    • Electric de-piller - worth the investment if you own knitwear or cashmere. A good one lasts years.

    • Manual fabric shaver - ideal for quick touch-ups. Avoid using on open knits.

    • Pet hair tools - these two are brilliant:

    • Reviving black cottons – use Dylon dye pods (specifically the pods - they’re the easiest product on the market to use) to re-dye faded blacks. Note they may dye decorative stitching and logos. I do a redye of my black cottons and linens at the start of each summer season and they come up good as new!

    • Tiny bleach spots on black – a black permanent marker (Sharpie) can disguise them. Test first.

    • Cashmere reality check – it will pill. De-pill regularly, especially early on; it sheds less over time.

    • Moth defence

      This one is close to my heart. I’ve recently had an infestation in a Moroccan wool rug (despite being mostly diligent with prevention). I’ve deemed them insidious fuckers, once you have them, they’re REALLY hard to get rid of.

      These are the two products I use:

    I have a calendar reminder set to replace them every 3 months (or at the start of each new season. Cedar and lavender products smell nicer but aren’t as tough. Mothballs are the nuclear option - effective but stinky.

  • Problem: Whites turning grey

    • Possible Causes: Poor sorting, detergent build-up, old fibres

    • Fix: Spot-treat, soak, sun-bleach, or strip wash

    Problem: Colours fading

    • Possible Causes: Too-hot washes, over-washing, wrong detergent

    • Fix: Wash cooler, sort better, right dose

    Problem: Items still dirty

    • Possible Causes: Dirty filter or seals, overload, too little water

    • Fix: Clean filter, run drum wash, increase or reduce load size for more/less agitation

    Problem: Machine smells musty

    • Possible Causes: Closed door, residue build-up, softener film

    • Fix: Leave door open, wipe seals, clean drum

    Problem: Stinky activewear

    • Possible Causes: Fabric softener, trapped sweat bacteria

    • Fix: Skip softener, deep soak or strip wash

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